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About This Resource

What It Does

This article talks about:

What to do when your parent or caregiver is using substance
Creating a safety plan
Practising self-care

How It Helps

This resource can help you:

Find local resources
Understand substance use
Take care of your own well-being

This article talks about:

What to do when your parent or caregiver is using substance
Creating a safety plan
Practising self-care

This resource can help you:

Find local resources
Understand substance use
Take care of your own well-being
I felt heard and understood, which is something I haven’t felt in a long time. [The Kids Help Phone responder] kept me calm and allowed me to feel safe enough to open up.

In addition to resources like this one, Kids Help Phone and Homewood Health also offer 24/7 confidential counselling at no cost.

If you'd like to speak to somebody, you can call or text the numbers below:

📞 Phone. Call 1-866-585-0445 (Adults) or 1-888-668-6810 (Youth) to speak with a counsellor.

📱 Text (SMS). Text WELLNESS to 741741 (Adult) or 686868 (Youth) to connect with a trained volunteer crisis responder for support.

However, If you’re interested in finding more resources like this one, including self-guided courses, webinars, peer-to-peer support groups, live counselling, mindfulness meditations, and more, you can create an account for free. You’ll also be able to complete a wellness assessment and track your progress towards your wellness goals.


Kids Help Phone is here for you during the COVID-19 pandemic. Emergency services and child protection services are still available across Canada. Mobile crisis support is also available in some areas. No matter what, your safety is a priority. It’s important to find ways to protect yourself, even while practising physical distancing.

Living with a parent/caregiver’s substance use can be hard. And it can be even harder when it involves more than one parent/caregiver. It’s normal to feel stressed, sad, angry or any other emotion if their substance use is affecting you. Remember, you didn’t cause their behaviour and you can’t control their actions.

If a parent/caregiver’s use of substances is impacting your life, there are things you can do to get help. Here are some ways you can cope with the situation and take care of yourself:

  • create a safety plan to help you protect yourself. This will help you know what to do if things are becoming unsafe

  • tell a safe adult about what’s going on and ask for support

  • consider spending some time away to take a break, if possible. You can spend time in nature, play games in your room, connect with friends, etc.

  • research support services for friends, relatives, etc. of people struggling with substance
    use. You can start by searching Resources Around Me for local programs

  • use trusted sources to help you understand substance use, if you have questions

  • take time to practise self-care and do things you enjoy each day

  • talk about your feelings with someone you trust (e.g. a friend, counsellor, etc.)

  • remember your parent/caregiver’s substance use is not your fault

If you or your parent/caregiver are in immediate danger (e.g. if you’re experiencing abuse, if you suspect an overdose, etc.), contact 911 or the emergency services in your area right away. You can also reach out to child protection services for help.

If your parent/caregiver’s substance use is impacting your life, it’s important for you to get support. You can connect with a safe adult for help with the situation.

Want more resources like this? You can consult Kids Help Phone’s self-reflection resources here.